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Wednesday, September 5, 2012

God, You've Got Mail! by Danette Crawford

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Destiny Image (August 21, 2012)

***Special thanks to Susan Otis of Creative Resources, Inc for sending me a review copy.***

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Danette Crawford is an evangelist, author, international speaker and TV host who became a youth pastor at age nineteen and by twenty-one was traveling as an evangelist. She is founder and president of Joy Ministries Evangelistic Association, which ministers to thousands through its twenty-one outreach programs. Her television program, "Joy in the Morning," is broadcast weekly into over 165 million homes nationally. She is a graduate of Lee University with a magna cum laude in psychology, and a master's of arts degree in counseling from Regent University. The author of Don't Quit in the Pit and Pathway to the Palace, she has been featured in programs on ABC, CBS, NBC, many other networks as well as in newspaper and magazine articles. She and her daughter reside in Virginia.


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SHORT BOOK DESCRIPTION:


A young mother of an infant, abandoned by her husband, learns that God is well able to abundantly provide for her needs. Faced with financial hardship, she'd present her bills to God, and wait for Him to supply the funds. Relying on God's promises for abundant provision, she held firm in faith and each month her needs were supplied. Danette Crawford, author, ministry leader and television evangelist whose program reaches more than 165 million homes each week, shares fifteen keys that unlock God's promises. True experiences from her life are combined with biblical principles, reflections, personal application and a relevant prayer.

Product Details:
List Price: $15.99
Paperback: 272 pages
Publisher: Destiny Image
Language: English
ISBN-10: 0768403073
ISBN-13: 9780768403077


AND NOW...THE FIRST CHAPTER:


Chapter 1
“I Am More than Able to Meet Your Needs”
And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.
—Philippians 4:19
I had to deal with financial hardship long before I became a single mother. During and after college, I traveled as an evangelist, and I relied completely on monetary contributions from other people. In this phase of my life, I would often look around and think, Okay, who’s going to help me now? The truth was, I had already learned that God would provide for me. Whenever the funds I owed to a particular convention center or other venue didn’t come in from the collection I took at the church where I was preaching, then the money would be waiting for me in my mailbox when I got home. Yet, even though I knew in my mind that I ought to trust God, it took a while for my heart to catch up and internalize that lesson.
Learning to Trust the Lord as Provider
I was preparing for a city-wide youth crusade, and I was excited because I knew that a lot of young people would be saved and ministered to. But the question kept nagging me: Where in the world would I gather enough financial support? Many people had made a commitment to give money, but, when it came down to it, they had backed out for various reasons. Just days before the payment was due, I was ministering at a Sunday morning service in a small church several hours away. As the service came to a close, I still didn’t have enough funds to cover the payment, which was due the next day. I felt the Lord leading me to drive to Oklahoma City that afternoon to attend an evening service there. I wasn’t even thinking about the possibility of collecting funds there, because I wasn’t scheduled to minister in Oklahoma City. Yet, I felt very strongly that the Lord was telling me to go there. So, I got in the car with my young companion, Shea, and we drove to Oklahoma City. We arrived just in time for the evening service.
Much to my surprise, the youth pastor who was leading the service began to talk about our upcoming youth crusade! Someone in the congregation stopped him and said, “The young lady evangelist who’s holding the event is here tonight.” The youth pastor then asked me to come up to the platform and share about the crusade. I did, and when I had I concluded my remarks, he took the microphone back from me and said to the congregation, “This is a God thing, and if God tells you to help her in any way, please do.”
As the service let out, Shea and I moved about on our own, shaking hands with the congregants and talking to some of them. When the crowd had dispersed, I was left standing alone—without having received any financial gifts. I met up with Shea, and we started making our way outside to our van. Shea said, “Did you see that lady in the last row who was in a wheelchair?”
“No,” I replied.
“After the service, she motioned for me to come over to where she was, and she asked what we needed,” Shea went on. “I told her, ‘Seven thousand dollars by tomorrow morning,’ and she wrote me a check!”
Talk about something to shout about! We were both excited and bewildered. But then, worry put a damper on my excitement as I thought, What if her check isn’t any good?
The next morning, Shea and I went straight to the bank. When we presented the check to the teller and asked her to cash it, a strange expression crossed her face. She asked us to take a seat in the waiting area for a minute. My mind began to go wild with worry. This is a bad check, and they think we’re responsible, I thought to myself. What if they’re calling the police? What if this? What if that? The minutes that passed felt like an eternity. Finally, the teller returned to the window. She apologized for the inconvenience and told us that she had called the woman whose name was on the account to verify that she’d written the check for $7,000. She then informed us that everything was fine, and she cashed the check. Hallelujah!
The Lord taught me a valuable faith lesson that day—to trust Him to provide, even if it meant relying on the least likely of avenues. The last person I would have expected the necessary funds to come from was a lady in the back row of a church in Oklahoma City where I hadn’t even been scheduled to speak. Part two of that lesson was when God said, “You had enough faith to get that check into your hand, but you didn’t have enough faith to believe that it was good.” It’s true—I didn’t. But God was teaching me to look to Him alone, and never to man, for my provision.
You Never Know How He’ll Meet Your Needs
Father God will always get His provision into our hands, but the channel through which He sends it is often the channel we would consider the least likely. I’m convinced that the Lord “sets us up” to build us up. The “setup” is that the funds never come from the expected source, and the “build-up” is for our faith. Father builds our faith on every step of this marvelous journey we are on with Him, as long as we trust Him.
Look to the Lord Alone
When we are in the midst of financial pressure, we have to be careful not to get angry and upset with those around us whom we think should be helping us. This is true for all of us, no matter our position—whether we’re single parents, businesspeople, pastors, and so forth. We should always look to the Lord for our provision and not rely on the arm of the flesh.
God taught me this principle long before I became a single mom, but I forgot this particular faith lesson when met with the mounting financial pressures I faced when I was suddenly in the position of having to care for a newborn baby on my own and without a steady source of income. Basically, my faith in God’s provision went out the window.
One day, as I stood staring at my file cabinet and pondered the bulging folder of bills marked “Due,” I began to get angry. My dad could write one check and pay off every one of my bills, I thought, and he wouldn’t even miss the money. As the bitterness mounted in my heart, the Lord spoke to me. “It’s not his responsibility to pay your bills now that you are grown,” He said. “But I’m your heavenly Father, and I can write one check and pay every bill you have. And I definitely wouldn’t miss it, because I own it all.” He went on to say that He not only could, but He would, if I would only trust Him.
Wow! God has a way of getting right to the point with a word of truth. The truth was, I shouldn’t have been looking to my dad—or any person, for that matter—to be the source of my provision. My heavenly Father was just waiting for me to look to Him. And today, your heavenly Father is waiting for you to look to Him for your every need. Jesus instructed us to pray, “Give us this day our daily bread” (Matthew 6:11 nkjv). It doesn’t say, “Give us this day our monthly bread”; it says “our daily bread.” I don’t know about you, but I kind of like to have the whole month budgeted out. And, if at all possible, I like to know my budget for the upcoming year! But God doesn’t usually work that way. His way requires us to place our trust in Him and to walk by faith.
It’s in His Hands
God got through to me loud and clear that day—so clear, in fact, that I began to treat every incoming bill as if it didn’t have my name on it. As I mentioned before, I started leaving it up to God. When I would go to my post office box and find a pile of bills, I’d simply look up and say, “God, You’ve got mail!” Then, I’d take God’s mail home with me and place it in the folder labeled “Due.” I wouldn’t open that folder again until the money was put in my hand. At that time, I’d say, “Okay, God. Which of Your bills do You want me to pay for You?”
My mortgage payments, utility bills, and all other expenses were always paid on a monthly basis, despite my lack of a steady income. Even with my ex-husband’s delinquent child support payments, God saw to it that we never paid a single bill late.
All that You Have Comes from Him
The Lord taught me that everything I have comes from Him. Every dollar, every meal, every piece of clothing—everything I have comes from Him. He taught me to ask Him what He wanted me to do with every dollar that came into my hand—that was an important key to having all of my needs met. After all, we have this assurance in Philippians 4:19 (nkjv): “My God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.” If my needs aren’t met, something is wrong. Maybe I spent God’s money on something I wanted or thought I needed instead of paying one of His bills. As we learn to ask God what He wants us to do with every dollar He puts into our hands, we can be free from stress and worry. When we receive bills in the mail, we can simply look to the Lord and say, “God, You’ve got mail!”
Trust Your Provider, Not Your Provision
The Lord often tests us—a truth I was shocked to discover as a new Christian. In Exodus, we have an example of God testing the children of Israel for several reasons, but primarily to see whether they would respond in obedience and to gauge their heart attitude toward money. It was a setup to see whether they would trust in God and rely on Him to provide for their daily needs on a daily basis.
God provided food to the Israelites while they were fleeing Egypt. It came in the form of manna, which fell daily from heaven. “The Lord said to Moses, ‘I will rain down bread from heaven for you. The people are to go out each day and gather enough for that day. In this way I will test them and see whether they will follow my instructions’” (Exodus 16:4).
A passing score on the Israelites’ part would have been one that proved their complete faith and trust in the true Provider, not their provision. And this is a test that each of us must pass. Sometimes, we get used to trusting in our provision—our paycheck, for example—that we lose sight of the One from whom it came. We just cruise through life, never realizing that our trust has shifted from the Source of everything to our salaries. When this happens, our trust in God weakens to the point where, if we lose a job, go through a divorce, or face an overwhelming situation that causes financial strain, we find it hard to hang on because the thing we’ve trusted in is slipping through our fingers.
Our heavenly Father promises to supply our daily bread—all of our needs (Philippians 4:19). But we can’t plead the promises of God if we aren’t living by faith in God. One covenant benefit of being a child of God is the confidence that He will keep His part of the covenant and supply whatever we need. We need to rest in that!
Trust in His Promises
When you go to the doctor’s office for a checkup, the receptionist asks you to produce your insurance benefits card. So, what do you do? You pull it out of your wallet with confidence because you know you have benefits! You don’t say, “I have benefits, but I’ll go ahead and pay for this visit out of pocket.” That would be foolish. And it’s the same when it comes to our covenant benefits as children of the King. Pull out your list of benefits—the Bible—to find a detailed compilation of all of the covenant blessings that belong to you. Those blessings include health, provision, peace, and joy, to mention just a few!
Heaven doesn’t have any bread shortages, so don’t walk around with your head hanging low. Hold your head up and boldly stand on the Word—your benefit Book—as you trust God to give you your daily bread. Your means of provision may change, but your Provider is the same yesterday, today, and forever (Hebrews 13:8). Psalm 37:25 says, “I was young and now I am old, yet I have never seen the righteous forsaken or their children begging bread.” So, don’t worry. God has never forsaken the righteous, and He isn’t about to abandon you. Never will you need to beg for bread. You may need to exercise your faith in Him to receive your daily bread, but that’s a great place to be, because your intimacy with the Father grows as you rely on Him more and more.
Building Trust by “Just Enough”
When the children of Israel were crossing over from the land of “not enough” (Egypt) to the land of “more than enough” (the Promised Land), they had to walk through the land of “just enough” (the desert). In the desert, they had just enough for that day. They didn’t lack, yet they didn’t have an abundance of food or provisions. They had just enough—their daily bread, or manna, from heaven.
Similarly, when Jesus commissioned the Twelve Apostles, He gave them the following instructions: “Take nothing for the journey except a staff—no bread, no bag, no money in your belts. Wear sandals but not an extra tunic” (Mark 6:8–9).
Whenever we cross over to a new place or ascend to a higher level, we come through a period in which we have to rely on what I call the “daily bread.” Why is this period necessary to pass through as we move up to the next level? Because the next level will require an increase in faith and trust in God.
Every time our ministry is about to cross over to the next level, I’m required to walk through the land of “just enough.” It isn’t fun, but what should we expect from a process that’s meant to kill the flesh? This is the reason many people choose to remain in their comfort zones rather than crossing over into their “potential zones.”
Over the years, each time our ministry has outgrown its office space and decided to relocate to a larger facility, the larger facility inevitably cost more—and I had to believe God to give us the extra funds every month. As I stepped out in faith, we had just enough to make each monthly payment. We never had any extra money, but we always had just enough to meet the payment. It was as if God was doling out our daily “manna” during these seasons of crossing over to the next level.
The same process applied to me as a homeowner. When I first bought my house, I had just enough money to pay the mortgage and utility costs every month. Groceries weren’t even in my budget! But God always made sure that I had enough, even if it didn’t look very promising on paper. It’s during this “daily bread” stage that we are continually stretched and our faith is challenged to grow. These seasons are never comfortable to the flesh because they are designed to rid us of all waste and excess. The flesh has to be disciplined in order for us to climb to a higher level. 
Don’t Get Too Comfortable, or You Might Just Get Stuck
One problem with our flesh is, it likes the familiar. We grow comfortable with what we know, to the point where, when God calls us to journey to a better place, we don’t feel like moving. The manna for the Israelites was a temporary provision. God didn’t plan for them to remain in the desert dining on manna for the rest of their lives. It was their provision for the process of crossing over to the Promised Land—the land of more than enough. They could have made the transition in a matter of eleven days, but, because of their grumbling, complaining, and unbelief, they took forty years to cross over. Imagine—four decades of eating manna! 
When your manna begins to dry up, it doesn’t mean you are going backward. It means you are going forward—forward into the Promised Land. Exodus 16:35 says, “The Israelites ate manna forty years, until they came to a land that was settled; they ate manna until they reached the border of Canaan.” They were given manna until they crossed over to the destination God had been leading them to all along.
In my own life, as well as in the lives of others, I have seen the “manna” begin to dry up on the precipice of a divine destination. At that point, the flesh screams out, “Don’t mess with my manna!” The provision I initially resented has become familiar, and my flesh resists any further growth that’s required for me to cross over to a new place, even if it’s a better place.
I was ministering in a city when I met a Christian woman in need of physical healing. In the middle of a miracle service, the Holy Spirit began to move in her, and she received her healing. Later, she told me that instead of rejoicing over the healing she had received, the first thing she thought was, Oh, no! I’m not going to receive my disability check any longer. 
When God messes with our manna, we can get a little worried if we have been depending on the manna for any length of time. Due to the financial strains I faced after my husband left, I became a participant in the government-sponsored Women, Infants, and Children (WIC) program when my daughter, Destiny, was very young. I received formula, cereal, milk, peanut butter, and a couple of other items each month. We were beneficiaries of this program for about eighteen months, while I got back on my feet, financially. One day, when I was filling out the paperwork to reenroll in the program, the Lord spoke to me and said that it was time to get off the “manna.” I reached the part where it asked me to write the income I expected for the next six months. As I went to fill in the amount, the Holy Spirit spoke to me again, saying, “Is that what you are expecting?” I had been praying for God to increase my monthly income to a certain amount—an amount that would have disqualified me from the WIC program. I was faced with a dilemma: trust in God, or trust in WIC—the “manna” I had grown accustomed to relying on. I knew I could count on my manna. What was I going to do without it?
I was going to cross over to the next level—that’s what I was going to do! I wasn’t going to need my manna any longer, but I needed to take a step of faith. I decided not to reenroll in the program, and I never went back on WIC in the years that followed, because I knew God had spoken to me, even though my flesh was screaming out for the manna.
It was amazing! Very soon after I obeyed the Holy Spirit, my income increased—sure enough, by an amount that exceeded the WIC guidelines. What is the “manna” in your life that has begun to dry up? Don’t get nervous when God messes with your manna—it’s a good sign. It means that you are about to cross over to your Promised Land, the land of more than enough. Don’t get stuck on the manna. God has something much better for you.
God Is All You Need
When you take what you have and you look to the Lord, you will always have more than enough. Remember, He owns everything—it’s impossible to “overdraw” on your account of covenant blessings from Him!
A good illustration to help you remember this truth is found in the biblical account of the feeding of the five thousand. Matthew 14:19 says, “Taking the five loaves and the two fish and looking up to heaven, he gave thanks and broke the loaves. Then he gave them to the disciples, and the disciples gave them to the people.” Jesus took what he had—that was His starting point. And that’s where most people quit. They look at their resources and they get depressed and discouraged, feel sorry for themselves, or try to manipulate others to give them resources. Just simply take what you have.
Second, Jesus looked up to heaven. Don’t look down—look up and hold your head up. This is where your faith and your trust come in.
Then, third, Jesus gave thanks. Stop complaining about what you don’t have and start praising God for what you do have. A grateful heart of thanksgiving is always a forerunner for an increase in blessing. If you aren’t thankful for what you have, why would God give you more?
Fourth and finally, Jesus took a step of faith. Although He had only five loaves and two fish, He started giving out what He had—now, that was a step of faith! When we take a step of faith and just start doing what we now we should do, provision will always be there.
Matthew 14:20–21 says, “They all ate and were satisfied, and the disciples picked up twelve basketfuls of broken pieces that were left over. The number of those who ate was about five thousand men, besides women and children.” They all ate—all five thousand men, along with an additional number of women and children! Not only did they all eat; they were all satisfied. They didn’t just get an appetizer. No one left hungry. And, on top of that, there were twelve basketfuls left over! Now, don’t tell me that God doesn’t do big things with small resources. He rarely did big things with big resources, but He always did big things with small resources.
Father God wants you to take what you have, look to Him, give thanks, and then take a step of faith as you walk in obedience. Don’t despise small beginnings. Don’t let the size of your resources, the size of your storm, or your perceived mistakes hold you back. Father owns it all, and He is ready and willing to meet all your needs!
Little Keys to Abundant Provision
Key #1: Trust your Provider, not your provision.
Questions for Reflection and Personal Application
1.     Have you ever found yourself faced with a financial need that you never would have been able to meet on your own? What was the outcome?
2.     Do you make a habit of seeking the Lord’s will regarding how you manage your money? If so, what kind of direction has He given you in this area?
If not, what can you do to invite God to become more involved in your fiscal management?
3.     Have you ever passed up an opportunity for promotion or progress because you were “stuck” in the familiar? What was the result?
Prayer
Ask God to help you to trust Him as your provider and to rely on Him to meet your needs as you seek to obey His Word and follow His will.


Saturday, January 23, 2010

Don’t Quit in the Pit by Danette Crawford

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Don’t Quit in the Pit

Whitaker House (March 2, 2010)

***Special thanks to Cathy Hickling of Whitaker House for sending me a review copy.***

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:


Danette Crawford is an author and evangelist who founded Joy Ministries in 1989 and serves as the organization’s president. Danette earned a Bachelor of Arts in psychology and a minor in Bible from Lee University and a Master of Arts in counseling from Regent University. Joy Ministries, based in Virginia Beach, Virginia, and focuses on serving the needs of low income women and families. Her television ministry, Joy in the Morning with Danette Crawford, is syndicated around the world, reaching over 165 million homes each week. She has been featured on ABC, CBS, NBC, and TBN programming and has appeared on the 700 Club, Living the Life, and Paula White Today.

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Product Details:

List Price: $12.99
Paperback: 288 pages
Publisher: Whitaker House (March 2, 2010)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1603741844
ISBN-13: 978-1603741842

AND NOW...THE FIRST CHAPTER:


Don’t Quit in the Pit
Are you in a storm the size of Texas? Are you looking up from a dark pit with high walls but see no ladder in sight? I want to extend a rope of hope to you!
If you feel like you’re in a pit, relax. You’re not the first person to find yourself looking up from within what feels like a deep, dark hole. In the first book of the Old Testament, Genesis, we read about a guy who found himself in his own pit—literally! His name was Joseph, and he was the eleventh son of a great patriarch named Jacob. The worst thing about Joseph’s pit was that Joseph’s brothers were the ones who threw him in there. Talk about rejection! For Joseph, that pit looked like a dark dead end, but it was truly a pathway to the palace—a direct route, at that. (See Genesis 37:11–37; 39:1–6, 20–23; 41:39–44.)

In the New Testament, we read about the apostle Paul, a respected Jewish leader who became a Christian, won souls for Jesus, and consequently found himself in his own pit. You see, being in a pit is a situation common to everyone—rich and poor, male and female, young and old, privileged and blue-collar. Paul’s pit was in the shape of a ship in a raging storm. Everyone wanted to jump off that ship, but God told Paul, “Don’t abandon ship—you’ll come through this!” (See Acts 27.)

I want to encourage you today—don’t abandon ship! Yes, you may be in the midst of the biggest storm of your life. Yes, your pit may seem overwhelming. But I can promise you that it’s only temporary. This too shall pass. It’s temporary as long as you make good choices and wise decisions as a result of your obeying Father God and doing what He tells you to do.

No, you are not alone; the Lord is with you no matter how deep and dark your pit may be. And no, you are not the only one who has ever been in that pit!

GRAB AHOLD OF THE WORD—YOUR ROPE OF HOPE
Both Joseph and Paul needed a rope of hope. There’s a rope of hope for you, too! It’s here right now in front of you. The other end of your rope is tied directly to the Word of truth—the Bible. God’s Word provides a map to guide us out of any and every pit that we find ourselves in. Psalm 34:19 says, “Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all” (nkjv). In other words, we all experience “pits” in our lives, but we must grab ahold of the rope of hope and be determined to climb out.

John 8:32 says, “You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” The truth on its own doesn’t set you free; it’s the truth that you know that sets you free. Our map to get out of the pit is the Word of God, but we must read the map. We must study the map, or we could stay lost in the pit. I travel a lot by car, and I always study the map before I leave. (I don’t like to use a GPS!) If I don’t study the map or refer to it during my trip, I’m just about guaranteed to get lost. Finding my way is as easy as reading the map, but I have to read it. I can’t obtain the knowledge by osmosis. The same is true with our map out of the pit.

(Insert call-out box) READ IT…’CAUSE YOU’LL NEED IT!

The good news is that every pit has the potential to be temporary because the Word assures us that God will deliver us from every affliction. One important key I have learned is that I must never quit; I must never give up. If I never quit, if I never give up, I can never be defeated. But if I decide to quit and give up, I will spend the rest of my life in the pit. The choice is really up to me. If I have a pity party in my pit…well, I’ll be there for a while! But if I grab ahold of the rope of hope every day, I can climb out of the pit and be back on the path to the palace.

DON’T LET THE LOCUST STEAL FROM YOU
What the locust swarm has left the great locusts have eaten; what the great locusts have left the young locusts have eaten; what the young locusts have left other locusts have eaten. (Joel 1:4)

As an adult, I can look back and recall many times when the enemy sent locusts into my life to eat away at the blessings and the life that my heavenly Father had for me. These “locust attacks” became pits, and I had to choose not to allow them to be permanent states or seasons in my life.

Years ago, I was reading the Bible when I came across the above Scripture, Joel 1:4. I didn’t really understand it at first, but then the Lord started showing me that it described my life—one locust attack after another. And those locusts had stolen years of my life from me.

The locust of rejection had eaten away at my joy and self-confidence. The locust of anger had eaten away at my peace. And the locust of unforgiveness had eaten away at my very being. What wasn’t stolen in one locust attack was stolen in another. Years of joy, peace, and happiness were stolen from me when I was in the pits of abuse, divorce, and abandonment. I then began looking to the people who had hurt me to repay me for all of my losses.

Joel 2:25 says, “I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten.” In other words, we are assured that the Lord repays us for all the years that the locusts have stolen from our lives. Other people can never repay us for years that have been stolen—only the Lord can. In reality, it’s not people who have stolen from us but the hand of the enemy. When we look to other people to repay us for our pain, we dig a deeper pit due to the unforgiveness and bitterness in our hearts. That’s a dangerous place to be, because unforgiveness prevents us from ever getting out of the pit!

EVERY CHOICE CREATES INCREASE OR DECREASE
Every day of our lives, we make hundreds of choices. Those choices always produce either increase or decease in various areas of life. For example, when I decide to get up early and exercise, I make a choice that increases my health, even though it may decrease the amount of sleep that I get. Stop and think about it. Every decision creates increase or decrease. We must be led by the Holy Spirit and choose wisely.

When we panic in the pit, we often grab ahold of anything we can get our hands on—anything that we think might keep us from going deeper into the pit. Actually, the opposite usually proves true. If we panic in the pit, the thing we grab on to actually serves as a shovel and takes us deeper.

You’ve probably seen this before—a person who grabs on to, for example, a new relationship in an attempt to get out of a relational pit. What happens? Instead of getting out of that previous relational pit, she winds up going even deeper into it. Or perhaps you know someone who grabbed a drug or a drink in attempt to numb the pain from his pit, only to find himself in a deeper, darker, even more painful pit. Don’t panic in the pit. The key is not to react out of our flesh, or carnal instincts, but to act out of our spirits!

ACT, DON’T REACT
A good example of acting rather than reacting is found in the twentieth chapter of 2 Chronicles. Jehoshaphat, the king of Judah, heard from some of his men that a vast army was coming against him, and that they weren’t far away. They weren’t just an army; they were a vast army—a really, really, really big army! And they were not only coming after Jehoshaphat; they were also coming to destroy the whole city and everyone in it. They were advancing quickly. (See 2 Chronicles 20:1–2.)

It’s one thing when a storm or a battle is coming, but it’s a whole different thing when that storm is the size of Texas! The Word tells us that Jehoshaphat was alarmed, yet he did not react out of his flesh. Rather, he acted out of his spirit, meaning he took a deep breath and went to God with his troubles. (See verses 3–12.)

When we react out of our flesh, we freak out. We cry, we scream, we yell, we emit any other series of unproductive responses. Some people even run away from God at the very time when they need to run to God the most. Jehoshaphat didn’t react out of his flesh; he acted out of his spirit. Verse three tells us, “Jehoshaphat resolved to inquire of the Lord, and he proclaimed a fast for all Judah.” And in verse four, we read, “The people of Judah came together to seek help from the Lord.” In the midst of the biggest battle or storm of Jehoshaphat’s life, he inquired of the Lord. He didn’t inquire of his friends, his pastor, his boss, or his spouse. He came before the Lord in fasting and prayer, and he encouraged those around him to do the same.

(Insert call-out box) DON’T PANIC IN THE PIT

Jehoshaphat was alarmed when he learned that a vast army much larger than his was coming to make war with him. He was alarmed, but he did not panic. He did not react. He acted. Many times, we react emotionally to our pit or to the crisis at hand. As a result, we waste all our time and energy, and we don’t help the situation at all. As a matter of fact, we may even make things worse.

After waiting many, many years to get married, I found myself in an abusive marriage to a man who had a sexual addiction. After dating for a year, we got married, and I immediately saw a side of him that he had never allowed me to see.

It took me a few years to realize that my husband had a sexual addiction, but as soon as I did, I panicked in the pit! I didn’t act out of my spirit by any stretch of the imagination. I reacted out of my flesh with a full-blown panic attack in the pit.

By His grace, God had supernaturally kept me hidden under His hand of protection, even though I had been raised in a fatherless home. I was very naïve in many areas, and I was vulnerable to my husband’s deception as a result.

When we find ourselves at the edge of a deep, dark pit, reacting out of our flesh is the worst thing we can do. When we react, we react out of our flesh, our emotions, or our natural minds. Reacting to the pit or the battle you are up against acknowledges how big and how powerful the enemy is. But when we act out of our spirits, we acknowledge how big and powerful God is. This enables us to come successfully out of every pit that dares to entrap us.

Unlike me, Jehoshaphat acted. Jehoshaphat proclaimed a fast that he might hear from God on how to handle the situation at hand. Not only did Jehoshaphat seek the Lord, he proclaimed a fast for all Judah. Everyone in the surrounding towns came together to fast and to seek God’s direction. The people responded according to how Jehoshaphat handled the situation. If Jehoshaphat had panicked and had come unglued, the people around him would have done the same thing. When we react out of our emotions and we don’t act out of our spirit, we give place for the enemy to defeat us. But, if we act out of our spirit, if we look to the Lord for how to handle the situations we face, then we always come out on the winning side.

(Insert call-out box) DETERMINATION WILL GET YOU WHERE YOU NEED TO GO

“Jehoshaphat resolved to inquire of the Lord.” To resolve essentially means the same thing as to determine. So, Jehoshaphat determined to inquire of the Lord—not his friends, not his coworkers, not his family, but the Lord! And think about Joseph. That young man was totally alone in his pit, without a friend or brother in sight. So, whether we are alone in the pit or sitting there with the opinionated words of others swirling about our heads, our first and best option is to inquire of the Lord and get His opinion on things.

When the people of Judah all gathered at the temple, Jehoshaphat stood up and prayed. He started his prayer by acknowledging God as the all-powerful, all-knowing God. He prayed, “Power and might are in your hand, and no one can withstand you” (2 Chronicles 20:6). When we acknowledge God for who He is, we don’t have any trouble letting Him be in control. But when we forget what He’s done for us in the past and doubt what He will do for us in the future, we start acting out of our own strength; we want to take control ourselves.

Jehoshaphat acknowledged God in his situation. As a result, he looked to God for the solution to the problem. The Bible instructs us, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5–6). We need to recognize and acknowledge who God is in the midst of our pits and battles. Sometimes, we can get so caught up in acknowledging how big the opposing army is or how deep our pit is that we get distracted and forget that God is bigger and is still in control.

When we panic, we try to do in the flesh what can be done only in the Spirit. When we get in the flesh, we can dig an even deeper pit. It is my desire that you will refuse to grab a shovel but grab the rope of hope instead and determine to climb out, no matter how deep your pit may seem today!

Jehoshaphat was determined to inquire of the Lord. Determination will get us just about anywhere we want to go. If we are determined to go in a direction that’s opposite from God’s direction for our lives, we can. It won’t be pretty, and it won’t be fun, but our determination can take us in that direction—at least for a little while.

DETERMINATION—A GREAT GIFT
The Bible is full of great stories of men and women of God who went from pits to pinnacles in their personal lives or careers. Have you ever heard someone comment, “Today was a Jonah day”? When someone says that, you know she means that she’s had a very hard day or experienced an above-average rough time! Well, let’s look at how rough it got for Jonah.

The Lord directed him to Nineveh, where he was to convict the people of their wickedness. But Jonah was determined to go to Tarshish instead—and that’s exactly where he set out to go! His trip didn’t last long, and it wasn’t pretty, but that’s the direction in which his determination took him.

The word of the Lord came to Jonah son of Amittai: “Go to the great city of Nineveh and preach against it, because its wickedness has come up before me.” But Jonah ran away from the Lord and headed for Tarshish. He went down to Joppa, where he found a ship bound for that port. After paying the fare, he went aboard and sailed for Tarshish to flee from the Lord. (Jonah 1:1–3)

Jonah paid the fare to go in the opposite direction from the Word of the Lord. At the time, the fare seemed cheap, but the fare for disobedience is always extremely expensive. Sometimes, it can cost us everything, including our lives.

Because of God’s great love, He sent a violent storm to give Jonah another opportunity to use his determination to take him in the right direction. The storm was so violent that the ship on which Jonah was traveling threatened to break up. As the seas became rougher and rougher, Jonah admitted that everyone on the ship was going through the storm as a result of his disobedience.

Storms can come in our lives as a result of our disobedience, other people’s disobedience, or directly from the hand of God to prune us and cause us to be even more fruitful. Job is an excellent example of this.

When we walk in disobedience, God often allows storms to come into our lives to get us back on track. Not only does He allow storms to get our attention, but He supernaturally provides a way out of the storms, as well.

After Jonah confessed his culpability for the storm, he directed the sailors to throw him overboard. So, “they took Jonah and threw him overboard, and the raging sea grew calm. But the Lord provided a great fish to swallow Jonah, and Jonah was inside the fish three days and three nights” (Jonah 1:15, 17). After the storm subsided, Jonah woke up in the whale’s stomach with his head in a tangle of seaweed. Now, that’s a pit! What was the first thing Jonah did when he realized his predicament? He prayed.

ALWAYS PRAY IN THE PIT

Always pray in the pit! If you aren’t sure how to pray, you can borrow a few words from Jonah!

From inside the fish Jonah prayed to the Lord his God. He said: “In my distress I called to the Lord, and he answered me. From the depths of the grave I called for help, and you listened to my cry. You hurled me into the deep, into the very heart of the seas, and the currents swirled about me; all your waves and breakers swept over me. I said, ‘I have been banished from your sight; yet I will look again toward your holy temple.’ The engulfing waters threatened me, the deep surrounded me; seaweed was wrapped around my head. To the roots of the mountains I sank down; the earth beneath barred me in forever. But you brought my life up from the pit, O Lord my God. When my life was ebbing away, I remembered you, Lord, and my prayer rose to you, to your holy temple. Those who cling to worthless idols forfeit the grace that could be theirs. But I, with a song of thanksgiving, will sacrifice to you. What I have vowed I will make good. Salvation comes from the Lord.” (Jonah 2:1–9)

Immediately after praying, Jonah was delivered from his pit. “The Lord commanded the fish, and it vomited Jonah onto dry land” (Jonah 2:10). God repeated His command for Jonah to preach His message to the people of Nineveh, and this time, he obeyed.

The Lord brought Jonah up out of the pit, and He will do the same for you today. It doesn’t matter how or why you got in the pit. The important thing is that you don’t quit in the pit, but you grab ahold of the rope of hope and climb out.

(Insert call-out box) FROM PITS TO PINNACLES

There’s nothing like a pit to get you to pray. Some of the best prayer meetings that I have ever had have been while I was in a pit! Don’t quit in the pit, but pray like you have never prayed before.

If we are determined not to quit, we can successfully make it out of whatever pit we find ourselves in. As a young Christian, I felt as though I didn’t have any gifts that I could use to bring glory to God. I told God, “I can’t sing, I can’t play the piano…God, I don’t have any gifts.” It was years later when the Lord said to me, “Danette, your gift is the gift of determination.”

Well, I had never considered determination a gift. But all of us have gifts that we don’t even realize. God gives us whatever gifts we need to fulfill His call and purpose for our lives. As I look back over my life, I can definitely say that God gave me the gift I needed the most—the gift of determination.

Perhaps it will help you if I share some of my very personal “pit stops.” Or, maybe I should say “pit pauses,” because I had to remain determined not to stop at the pits. My prayer is that this book will encourage you to make your times in the pit temporary seasons. Yes, we all have pit experiences. So, in the following pages, I want to teach you what I have learned over the years. But most important, I want to encourage you to be determined never to quit in the pit but always to grab on to the rope of hope—God’s Word. And remember, the Word promises us double for all of our trouble! (See Job 42:10.)